hey umm i'm having boy issues.im never the kind of girl who goes nuts over a boy but now i cant help it and i need some advice cuz i know alot of girls had to have gone through something like this!! ok so here's the issue. there's this boy i really really like.we went to elementry school together so we know eachother.and we even both "Liked"/had crushes on eachother wat ever you wanna say,when we were in 4th and fifth grade.then when we got to middle school last year he completely ignored me,got popular and we didnt talk to eachother at all that year.and im so stupid cuz at the end of the year we had a field day and he cheered for me and i took that as a "i still like u" so i had my friend play messenger and ask him out for me. his reply:no.we arent on the same team this year and we probably wouldnt see eachother alot over the summer
so now this year in school we are on the same team and i have one class with him.my heart is always goin so fast when i enter the class room.he complemented my slipknot shirt yesterday and it made my day.i couldnt even say thank u.i just gave him a big smile. so yea of course when he's not paying attention i stare at him.and when i'm not really looking i swear he looks at me,but my mind is prob playing tricks. and he does cross country and i do field hockey so we see eachother after school sometimes and if he runs past me he's always being loud and kinda showing off. anyhoodle,let me get to my point.
i really like him.i have since 3rd grade.he's popular.im not.he can talk to anyone.im painfully shy.we used to be really close but we drifted apart.wat should i do?? ask him out?? just forget it or see if he does anything?? its really tearing me apart.i find myself singing taylor swift's you belong with me!! so please give me ur advice of what i should do.and please dont just say "your to young blah blah blah" i just really need some help so comments are greatly appreciated.if u read all this i love u and i will give u a cookie xD
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Ask him. If he likes you he'll go out with you and if he's not well he just wasn't the right one and that's probably a sign you can do better, but hell what do i know?
ya, jsut talk with him and see wat he does, but dnt just go really fast into everything, cuz he might get creeped out or something
I'm in agreement with everyone else, talking to him and getting to know hjim again seems like the best way to start, even though being shy it can be the hardest thing to do to come out of your shell but all you need is a little confidence show him that your a great girl and if he gave you a chance maybe he could see that too.
I know ho you feel being shy hell i wasonce still am now to a degree and i'm 28 lol
also that taylor swift song is rather good it makes me think of my ex lol oh dear haha
I think you should talk to him. Maybe he also likes you but he cant tell this to you. You know some popular guys cant talk with a girl he has feelings to, but at the same time he can talk to everyone. And I guess you two should spend more time together. And don't be afraid to tell him about your feelings ))) By the way I kissed my bf first )))
just be yourself and try to get in touch with him, like maybe inviting him to some hockey game or whatever you two are both interested in, so it´s not literally a date but just a meeting up to have a good time and then you can just see how it goes and stuff...this is at least how I´d do it...
I'd say, talk to him before it is too late, cause then you'll regret it!
you guys were talking to each other before, so why not now?! Just because he is popular? I think he is still just the same dude...so go for it!
Start with a smile and a "Hi, how are ya?!", hehe ;]
Well, if you're painfully shy I'm not sure if you will do the things mentioned in the comments below e.g. "shout his name". If anything, pass him a written message... if that doesn't work out, as in he doesn't feel the same... then move on. You do not want to spend the rest of the year obsessing over him when he isn't sending out the same signals. I ended up doing that the first two years in high school, it was not good. You don't want to waste time thinking about "what could have been".
everyone's already said what I was going to say and they're very right.
be yourself, talk to him, get to know him... he'll probably be doing the same to get to know you x
and you're not too young x
Just be yourself!! If he likes you he will let you know some way or another...I know I am an old lady and I have been out of the dating loop for quite some time since I have been married for 21 years...One thing I have always learned though is if it is meant to be, it will work out!! But girl...you need to come out of that shell!! Don't be afraid to talk to him, realize the worst thing that could happend is he just won't talk back, that's not that bad...things could be worse!! If you want things in your life, you must go after them!! lol...good luck. Keep us posted!! Karina
thank u guyzzz =D